Kent James
About me: I am a 59 year old business professional, who after a lifetime of corporate success and normal family demands, finally turned my attention to the learnings that reach deep into my heart. The body mind connection, sensuality, energy connections and finding deeper meaning and pleasure. I was lucky enough to be taken on as an bodywork apprentice at The Sensualist, and to be given the honour of a position where I can offer a positive healing masculine perspective. I have studied closely with Freja and completely embrace the philosophies, concepts, professional protocol and therapeutic concepts at The Sensualist.
I have seen over and over the way that a woman will blossom when offered the freedom to relax and open without fear of judgement, and without the almost ubiquitous male habit of interpreting signals the wrong way and taking your pleasure as an invitation to take his. Women are often used to their pleasure being used to gratify a man's ego, to turn him on or otherwise make him happy in some way. Her pleasure is not her own in that situation.
As for self esteem, one of the most powerful healing effects is when a body is given the chance to simply be witnessed, and to be touched and seen in the light of it's innate perfect feminine essence, this perfection is unrelated to size, age, shape, or appearance but that which comes from deeper within. I hold you in that light so that you may join me in a new, loving perspective on your body. Ultimately taking that with you and living with a new self concept and comfort in your own skin.
About me: I am a 59 year old business professional, who after a lifetime of corporate success and normal family demands, finally turned my attention to the learnings that reach deep into my heart. The body mind connection, sensuality, energy connections and finding deeper meaning and pleasure. I was lucky enough to be taken on as an bodywork apprentice at The Sensualist, and to be given the honour of a position where I can offer a positive healing masculine perspective. I have studied closely with Freja and completely embrace the philosophies, concepts, professional protocol and therapeutic concepts at The Sensualist.
I have seen over and over the way that a woman will blossom when offered the freedom to relax and open without fear of judgement, and without the almost ubiquitous male habit of interpreting signals the wrong way and taking your pleasure as an invitation to take his. Women are often used to their pleasure being used to gratify a man's ego, to turn him on or otherwise make him happy in some way. Her pleasure is not her own in that situation.
As for self esteem, one of the most powerful healing effects is when a body is given the chance to simply be witnessed, and to be touched and seen in the light of it's innate perfect feminine essence, this perfection is unrelated to size, age, shape, or appearance but that which comes from deeper within. I hold you in that light so that you may join me in a new, loving perspective on your body. Ultimately taking that with you and living with a new self concept and comfort in your own skin.
See articles: Removing Stigma from Pleasure, Or What Kind of Woman Gets Sensual Massage?
Sensual Massage for Women Goes Mainstream
Sensual Massage for Women Goes Mainstream
The time spent is time on the table, which has an organic flow and is responsive to your body and your needs... rather than the clock. I want you to STOP thinking about how long your body is taking to let go and respond, and instead simply be present in the touch and sensation. You will find that this presence enhances and amplifies your response.
Sessions may be booked using the booking buttons above, or by requesting a time, and using an e-transfer to hshealth@mail.com to reserve the time. Please email me at freja@thesensualist.org to arrange your session with Kent.
Sessions may be booked using the booking buttons above, or by requesting a time, and using an e-transfer to hshealth@mail.com to reserve the time. Please email me at freja@thesensualist.org to arrange your session with Kent.
FAQ and Etiquette at the Sensualist
Privacy and discretion are important. Any information you share is for me to know better how to benefit you during a session or help solve your problems. It is 100% confidential. I work from a private studio with shower facilities and see clients by appointment only. I care about what I do and who I see, and make every effort to ensure that our goals for the session are in alignment.
If you are receiving bodywork I require that you be freshly showered and cleaned with soap in all areas and crevices, front and back, this is a very intimate service and personal hygiene is essential. I have a shower at the studio for your convenience.
Yes, I work with mature clients, males, females, transgender, handicapped -- age and body type is NOT an issue. Shame does not exist in my environment. Bring an open mind and heart and we will enjoy ourselves.
In bodywork sessions you are the receiver and I am the giver. The touch is one way. I do not permit grabbing, groping, or handling of my body. I will not tolerate requests for sex of any kind (oral,vaginal, anal) or pressure to perform sexual activities. If you are unsure or ANYTHING, please ask beforehand. Communication is everything. I use gloves and lubrication for any kind of penetrative work (G-spot, yoni massage, deep spot exploration) and it is all to your level of comfort.
I cannot stress the importance of understanding the dynamics of this massage. You are here to fully experience your own body's erotic response, and I am here to facilitate that. Your attention is on you, your awareness, control and capacity for pleasure will increase, as will your sensitivity to sensuality, energy and flow. Most people are missing out on what their bodies have to offer due to narrow views of what intimacy and sexuality is. I encourage experiencing more, for healing, learning, and ideally principles to take home and use within your own relationship.
Money exchanged is for verbal consultation only. By scheduling time with me, you are agreeing to nothing more than a counsel and advice for the duration of time scheduled. No money will be exchanged for any adult services. The only services I request compensation for are time and verbal advice or coaching.
Privacy and discretion are important. Any information you share is for me to know better how to benefit you during a session or help solve your problems. It is 100% confidential. I work from a private studio with shower facilities and see clients by appointment only. I care about what I do and who I see, and make every effort to ensure that our goals for the session are in alignment.
If you are receiving bodywork I require that you be freshly showered and cleaned with soap in all areas and crevices, front and back, this is a very intimate service and personal hygiene is essential. I have a shower at the studio for your convenience.
Yes, I work with mature clients, males, females, transgender, handicapped -- age and body type is NOT an issue. Shame does not exist in my environment. Bring an open mind and heart and we will enjoy ourselves.
In bodywork sessions you are the receiver and I am the giver. The touch is one way. I do not permit grabbing, groping, or handling of my body. I will not tolerate requests for sex of any kind (oral,vaginal, anal) or pressure to perform sexual activities. If you are unsure or ANYTHING, please ask beforehand. Communication is everything. I use gloves and lubrication for any kind of penetrative work (G-spot, yoni massage, deep spot exploration) and it is all to your level of comfort.
I cannot stress the importance of understanding the dynamics of this massage. You are here to fully experience your own body's erotic response, and I am here to facilitate that. Your attention is on you, your awareness, control and capacity for pleasure will increase, as will your sensitivity to sensuality, energy and flow. Most people are missing out on what their bodies have to offer due to narrow views of what intimacy and sexuality is. I encourage experiencing more, for healing, learning, and ideally principles to take home and use within your own relationship.
Money exchanged is for verbal consultation only. By scheduling time with me, you are agreeing to nothing more than a counsel and advice for the duration of time scheduled. No money will be exchanged for any adult services. The only services I request compensation for are time and verbal advice or coaching.