Do you ever wonder what your relationship would look like if you had the chance to have a better sex life?
With the Intimacy Clinic I teach couples how to bring their sexuality into alignment and use it to create trust, intimacy, pleasure and excitement in their life together. You will learn how to take the sex in your relationship from non existent, or a maintenance chore to ecstatic. From stale crumbs, wilted lettuce to a buffet of satisfying experience.
What about when sex sucks or is non existent?
I work with couples where sex is problematic from the standpoint of either there not being any, or if they do have it it is not very good. Sometimes only one of them knows that it is not very good. The lack of sexual alignment in the relationship causes resentment, and often at least one of the two has thought about looking outside the relationship to get their needs met, or thought that they would have to end the relationship altogether in the hopes of finding one with more sexual intimacy. My participants have an otherwise healthy relationship with no serious psychological or psychiatric disorders. They want to improve their sexuality and be committed to a life with more pleasure and love.
I work with couples where sex is problematic from the standpoint of either there not being any, or if they do have it it is not very good. Sometimes only one of them knows that it is not very good. The lack of sexual alignment in the relationship causes resentment, and often at least one of the two has thought about looking outside the relationship to get their needs met, or thought that they would have to end the relationship altogether in the hopes of finding one with more sexual intimacy. My participants have an otherwise healthy relationship with no serious psychological or psychiatric disorders. They want to improve their sexuality and be committed to a life with more pleasure and love.
Does your relationship have any of these problems? Would you even know if your partner does?
- One or both partners dread having sex
- It is impossible to have a productive discussion that results in more and better sex.
- One partner feels pressured and is resentful, the other feels rejected, or worse has stopped trying.
- They lack the information and skills required to make sex a relaxing and engaging healthy activity, versus an emotionally perilous and unsatisfying experience.
- One or both partners lack personal awareness and empowerment with their sexuality.
- Challenged with a body that does not sexually respond, or ejaculates too quickly.
- Challenged by not having any desire or libido, or an inability to orgasm.
- Plagued with body shame over the appearance, or size and shape of genitals.
- Plagued by shame over sexuality from family of origin.
- Have rigid rules and expectations around sex that they expect the other person to adhere to.
- Sex has become stagnant and boring.
- Divorce or cheating seems like only option to get sexual needs met.
What will we learn from the Make Love Better intimacy clinic?
- You will learn how to have a perfect love making session each and every time so that afterwards you feel content, good about yourself and more in love with your partner than before.
- How to use sexuality, sensuality, and witness to create a deep container of trust level and security that surpasses ANY desperate clinging attempts to control the other's behaviour or sexuality.
- You will avoid the trauma and expen$e of trying to get sexual needs met through a divorce or sexual infidelity.
- You will learn what to do when faced with a body - your own, or your partner’s -- that does not sexually respond in the way you wanted it to during love making.
- You will learn the secrets of the “Pleasure Zone” a mind and health hack that : reduces anxiety and stress (without alcohol), improves focus, gets the body and the mind receptive to pleasure, increases the pleasure experienced, improves sex with time and age.
- You will discover how to remain focused during sex and not ruin it by being “in your head” and thinking or worrying about things such as performance, body issues, resentments, future anxieties etc.
- How to open up and share your authentic sexuality with your partner, and get your partner to do the same.
- How to BE someone that your lover can open up to sexually, how to foster an environment of support and inclusivity so that it is safe to be real and tap into what really feels good, what is really erotic.
- You will learn how to overcome any kind of physical set back such as a health problem, immobility, sexual dysfunction or major change such as mastectomy, prostatectomy, etc.
- How to approach situations that feel intolerable and discover how to negotiate. This one is a heavy one and where you may find some thorns in the roses. How to have the clarity of mind to find the core and fundamental values and work from there.
- How to have sex that is extraordinary, erotic, ecstatic, playful and a sex life that brings joy to your heart instead of a knot in your stomach. Even if you’ve never enjoyed sex, even if you are currently in a sexless marriage, even if you lost the spark long ago, even if you don’t feel confident with your lovemaking skills.
There’s nothing worse than feeling stuck in a relationship with someone you love dearly, and feeling like there is no way to get your needs met. Wondering, "Is this all there is?"
HOW DOES IT WORK?
In essence it is 4 sessions for each partner (separate sessions, 8 in total) arranged in a way that meets your particular needs.
I create a slack channel in which the three of us can communicate and stay in touch privately, and where I can offer active on-going support through this process. In the slack app there is homework, followup information and resources, and the ability to chat privately or all together as well as book the next session.
What happens during sessions will vary according to the individual: consulting, teaching, hypnosis, hands on work, or combining them if I'm teaching a couple how to do specific things together, like erotic massage technique etc. or if I’m working to remove performance anxiety, reactivity, inability to communicate sexually, removal of past trauma and inhibitions…. And so on.
The cost is $1600 per couple. I do emphasize that ideally these should be started and completed within 2-4 months of the session start date. It is easy to get started, see immediate progress then not complete the learning. Payments may be made as a single $1600 upfront, two payments of $900, or 4 payments of $500
When you are ready to get started, I set up a slack channel for our work together. This lets us have a dedicated communication channel for not only my resources and communication to you both -- homework and so on, but your feedback, questions, concerns to me.
note: I have had many people contact me to find out whether they can do this via distance, or without their partner's knowledge and participation. The answer is yes, you can. It may take more time without your partner's participation, but as long as we are not working with significant barriers such as untreated personality disorders (narcissistic personality disorder, borderline, sociopathy) then you can put the work in and transform your relationship dynamics.
Ready for something better than the same old?
Contact me to get started, or to ask any questions!
In essence it is 4 sessions for each partner (separate sessions, 8 in total) arranged in a way that meets your particular needs.
I create a slack channel in which the three of us can communicate and stay in touch privately, and where I can offer active on-going support through this process. In the slack app there is homework, followup information and resources, and the ability to chat privately or all together as well as book the next session.
What happens during sessions will vary according to the individual: consulting, teaching, hypnosis, hands on work, or combining them if I'm teaching a couple how to do specific things together, like erotic massage technique etc. or if I’m working to remove performance anxiety, reactivity, inability to communicate sexually, removal of past trauma and inhibitions…. And so on.
The cost is $1600 per couple. I do emphasize that ideally these should be started and completed within 2-4 months of the session start date. It is easy to get started, see immediate progress then not complete the learning. Payments may be made as a single $1600 upfront, two payments of $900, or 4 payments of $500
When you are ready to get started, I set up a slack channel for our work together. This lets us have a dedicated communication channel for not only my resources and communication to you both -- homework and so on, but your feedback, questions, concerns to me.
note: I have had many people contact me to find out whether they can do this via distance, or without their partner's knowledge and participation. The answer is yes, you can. It may take more time without your partner's participation, but as long as we are not working with significant barriers such as untreated personality disorders (narcissistic personality disorder, borderline, sociopathy) then you can put the work in and transform your relationship dynamics.
Ready for something better than the same old?
Contact me to get started, or to ask any questions!
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