Healing from Infidelity
Sure. It may have felt like your heart was ripped out, Infidelity cuts to the very core of your being.
Holding onto past hurts is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
Whether you want to move on from the relationship, or recover and rebuild the relationship with one who was unfaithful, it is imperative that you release what happened. However, you cannot logic, repress, or bury emotional trauma and expect it to disappear. Memories buried alive never die.
Often people want the pain to stop, but do not want to let the other person off the hook. Again, drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. In order to make healthy decisions, in order to recover and experience love again without the sting, you must be free of heart and spirit, and not looking at the present through a lense coloured from the past. Your partner broke trust through infidelity. You're hurting yourself now by replaying it time and again, you are the one disrespecting yourself by not moving past this.
I do not pass judgement on relationships. However, through trancework and emotional freedom technique I facilitate healing and the releasing of past emotional hurts. You can remove the emotional charge from any past event. The anger, shame, guilt, the grief, no matter how intense, is not something you need to be carrying around with you. It's certainly not something that can allow for a new and better relationship, or to the repair and healing of a damaged one. So let it go.
Contact me with any questions or to schedule a complimentary consultation to decide whether this is right for you.
Holding onto past hurts is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
Whether you want to move on from the relationship, or recover and rebuild the relationship with one who was unfaithful, it is imperative that you release what happened. However, you cannot logic, repress, or bury emotional trauma and expect it to disappear. Memories buried alive never die.
Often people want the pain to stop, but do not want to let the other person off the hook. Again, drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. In order to make healthy decisions, in order to recover and experience love again without the sting, you must be free of heart and spirit, and not looking at the present through a lense coloured from the past. Your partner broke trust through infidelity. You're hurting yourself now by replaying it time and again, you are the one disrespecting yourself by not moving past this.
I do not pass judgement on relationships. However, through trancework and emotional freedom technique I facilitate healing and the releasing of past emotional hurts. You can remove the emotional charge from any past event. The anger, shame, guilt, the grief, no matter how intense, is not something you need to be carrying around with you. It's certainly not something that can allow for a new and better relationship, or to the repair and healing of a damaged one. So let it go.
Contact me with any questions or to schedule a complimentary consultation to decide whether this is right for you.