Overcome Erectile Dysfunction
You are in a relationship, although erectile dysfunction has introduced resistance into your sexual and romantic life. You have already sought out solutions, read countless articles, perhaps visited a GP, urologist, and are not willing to rely on drugs or to settle for a mediocre or non existent sex life. You deeply desire to have a passionate vibrant and mutually fulfilling sexual relationship and are frustrated with your lack of ability to achieve this mechanically. The blow to masculine self image and emotional pain that impotence causes is weighing heavily on you, and in consequence, on your partner.
You know that this is not a quick fix, and are willing to commit to a new way of understanding your sexuality in order to create a loving, authentic, safe space in which to express your deepest sexual and emotional selves.
What you need most right now is a solution that allows you and your partner to let each other off the hook and release the tension immediately. Take a step back and begin to create an environment within the relationship that allows your sexuality to thrive, your male passion to be unleashed and free to be expressed without reservation and gives you complete confidence in your body every time you make love and allows you to get your “head in the game.”
You need understanding. Ignorance in this case is not bliss. Our cultural view of sexuality is remarkably immature and breeds disconnect, dissatisfaction and sexual dysfunction. Understanding the two levels of sexuality and utilizing specific principles and techniques to create a passionate sexy and loving environment which supports your sexuality is crucial. With this information sexual function does not “decline” with age, but becomes richer and more profound. Strategies. You need the “best practices” tools, sexual and emotional techniques that really work to transform your sexual dynamics. There are two categories of tools and strategies that you need, physical and emotional or communication.
For Her: Erectile dysfunction can wreak havoc on your self esteem as well. At best it's frustrating and disappointing, at worst you feel unattractive, undesirable, helpless in your ability to turn him on and unsure as to whether your relationship even has a future since he does not desire you enough to “get it up.” I am here to say that nothing could be further from the truth, and nothing hurts your man more than his inability to fully satisfy you sexually. I will teach you what your role is in supporting his erections, and it's not what you think.
After years of working with clients first as individuals, and later as couples, I have come to firmly believe that barring medical and physical issues, erectile dysfunction is a relationship issue. Your sexuality and intimate life is fully integrative and cannot be compartmentalized into a single aspect, the function of a single appendage separate from everything else that is going on. When a couple commits to having intimate communication, to using the "best practices" and toolbox, and expanding their intimate repertoire sexual function automatically is restored.
This 8 week comprehensive evaluation and guide will lead you through the steps of not only restoring sexual function, but improving intimacy and developing sensuality. Most treatments have it backwards: treating the symptom of lack of erection, rather than addressing the actual cause. In my opinion, an understanding of sexual dynamics and how they cannot be separated from emotional needs is crucial to overcoming erectile dysfunction. Failure to treat the root cause, also neglects the devastating effects that impotence effects onto the male psyche, causing a ripple effect that spills over into many other aspects of his life. The penis is a barometer, "treating" dysfunction with medications is like going to the mechanic when the check engine light is on, and having the mechanic simply disconnect the wire for the light. Sure, the light is not on.. but you're still in denial of the problem and sooner or later more damage will occur.
What is included? How does it work?
An initial consultation is necessary for me to determine what the root cause is. I am not a doctor, so it is often beneficial to have the tests done to see if there is a medical condition such as heart disease or diabetes causing the erectile difficulties. In my experience physical causes are the minority.
Following the consultation, I will provide a detailed assessment of the situation, give you my overview and the first steps in the process to overcoming ED and cultivating a passionate fulfilling sex life. I like email communications as we get to keep the records, unlike phone calls or face to face where there is no record for you to review. However, I allow for telephone skype or google chat calls when appropriate or necessary.
From there, you may either take the information in the followup and run with it, or need and prefer future followup appointments for you, your partner, or both of you. Whilst male mindset is crucial to overcome ED, the female support is just as important. I often say that if I could teach her what I know, his problems would not exist.
You know that this is not a quick fix, and are willing to commit to a new way of understanding your sexuality in order to create a loving, authentic, safe space in which to express your deepest sexual and emotional selves.
What you need most right now is a solution that allows you and your partner to let each other off the hook and release the tension immediately. Take a step back and begin to create an environment within the relationship that allows your sexuality to thrive, your male passion to be unleashed and free to be expressed without reservation and gives you complete confidence in your body every time you make love and allows you to get your “head in the game.”
You need understanding. Ignorance in this case is not bliss. Our cultural view of sexuality is remarkably immature and breeds disconnect, dissatisfaction and sexual dysfunction. Understanding the two levels of sexuality and utilizing specific principles and techniques to create a passionate sexy and loving environment which supports your sexuality is crucial. With this information sexual function does not “decline” with age, but becomes richer and more profound. Strategies. You need the “best practices” tools, sexual and emotional techniques that really work to transform your sexual dynamics. There are two categories of tools and strategies that you need, physical and emotional or communication.
For Her: Erectile dysfunction can wreak havoc on your self esteem as well. At best it's frustrating and disappointing, at worst you feel unattractive, undesirable, helpless in your ability to turn him on and unsure as to whether your relationship even has a future since he does not desire you enough to “get it up.” I am here to say that nothing could be further from the truth, and nothing hurts your man more than his inability to fully satisfy you sexually. I will teach you what your role is in supporting his erections, and it's not what you think.
After years of working with clients first as individuals, and later as couples, I have come to firmly believe that barring medical and physical issues, erectile dysfunction is a relationship issue. Your sexuality and intimate life is fully integrative and cannot be compartmentalized into a single aspect, the function of a single appendage separate from everything else that is going on. When a couple commits to having intimate communication, to using the "best practices" and toolbox, and expanding their intimate repertoire sexual function automatically is restored.
This 8 week comprehensive evaluation and guide will lead you through the steps of not only restoring sexual function, but improving intimacy and developing sensuality. Most treatments have it backwards: treating the symptom of lack of erection, rather than addressing the actual cause. In my opinion, an understanding of sexual dynamics and how they cannot be separated from emotional needs is crucial to overcoming erectile dysfunction. Failure to treat the root cause, also neglects the devastating effects that impotence effects onto the male psyche, causing a ripple effect that spills over into many other aspects of his life. The penis is a barometer, "treating" dysfunction with medications is like going to the mechanic when the check engine light is on, and having the mechanic simply disconnect the wire for the light. Sure, the light is not on.. but you're still in denial of the problem and sooner or later more damage will occur.
What is included? How does it work?
An initial consultation is necessary for me to determine what the root cause is. I am not a doctor, so it is often beneficial to have the tests done to see if there is a medical condition such as heart disease or diabetes causing the erectile difficulties. In my experience physical causes are the minority.
Following the consultation, I will provide a detailed assessment of the situation, give you my overview and the first steps in the process to overcoming ED and cultivating a passionate fulfilling sex life. I like email communications as we get to keep the records, unlike phone calls or face to face where there is no record for you to review. However, I allow for telephone skype or google chat calls when appropriate or necessary.
From there, you may either take the information in the followup and run with it, or need and prefer future followup appointments for you, your partner, or both of you. Whilst male mindset is crucial to overcome ED, the female support is just as important. I often say that if I could teach her what I know, his problems would not exist.
So if you are ready to
- Overcome Erectile Dysfunction and enjoy erections and more erotic pleasure than ever before
- Regain Sexual Confidence (or develop it for the first time)
- Develop a passionate active sexual relationship
- Learn pleasure principles that become more powerful with time and know how to bring erotic pleasure to the next level
- Have a life free of performance anxiety and worry surrounding your erections
- Expand your body's potential for pleasure and arousal
- Develop a sense of confidence, play, comfort and ease surrounding the subject of sex and your penis
- Have peace of mind and full satisfaction from intimate life
- Powerful sexual communication skills and emotional connection
- take complete control of your sexuality
My Experience and Satisfaction with Freja…..A Clients View
When I first meet with Freja I was a 56 year old male experiencing issues with Erectile Dysfunction and related to that Performance Anxiety. I had begun my search for help with my family doctor and a men’s health clinic, which is the prudent way to begin with health related issues. However, the resulting recommendations and treatments had little or no benefit to me and were in one respect painful. It was at this point I realized that sexual performance and pleasure are not fully addressed by the traditional route, but it did at least have the benefit of telling me that there were no physical cause for my problems. I also realized at this point that the traditional route did not address how these issues affected me as a whole and as a man. As a result my anxiety and stress increased, further complicating not only my ED and Performance Anxiety, but me emotionally.
I took matters into my own hands and began an intense search for help on the internet. It was during this search I discovered Freja. I read the various postings and articles she wrote pertaining not only to Erectile Dysfunction and related problems, but also her work that involved developing sensual and sexual pleasure within the person. Sensual and sexual pleasure from within me was something I had not experienced for years as a result of my issues. The comments that she made in these articles that most appealed to me was her description of her services as promoting a healing of a person’s mind, body and both emotional and sensual spirit. I felt I needed that type of healing that the traditional route had not given me. I was fortunate enough to be local to Freja, and set up an appointment to see her. I now understand that you can work with Freja through online/phone/Skype sessions if you are not in her area.
Firstly Freja the person, and I preface my comments in this regard by saying that I interview and conduct investigative inquires for a living and am skeptical by nature. Freja is truly an amazing individual, this I felt from our very first meeting. The topics I came to seek her help with are both deeply personal and not easily discussed openly by me. She has an innate ability to make me feel comfortable and at ease very quickly as we began our discussion. She has a wonderful presence about her that quickly promotes a feeling of caring, understanding and a true concern about you as a person. She made it very easy for me to discuss my issues to the point I shared with her things that I had never spoken openly with anyone before. She is bright, enthusiastic about her work and instilled a confidence in me that she could help me. I must also add that she is gorgeous.
As she began her work with me over a number of sessions it quickly became evident how knowledgeable she is about: sensuality and sexuality, relationships and relationships issues, the male and the psychology of a man, the human body and the interaction between body and mind.
As we progressed through the various sessions Freja’ s expertise combined with the highest degree of professionalism not only made my journey healing but also very enjoyable. I will not go into the details of her work with me as the programs and healing she provides is customized to each individuals needs and wants.
I will share where I am today with my Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety. My improvements did not happen right away, but was a slow progression over time with a lot of work and self-analysis directed by Freja. There is no magic bullet that fixes these issues over night
**Freja's note: medication, Viagara and Cialias had NOT been effective even as a temporary solution in his case. Also, the client has not followed every recommendation in terms of health and lifestyle habits, choosing to engage in activities which have a deleterious effect on erections specifically.
I have the ability to have an erection and participate in intercourse to the complete satisfaction of my partner and myself. This was not possible before I met Freja, along with other activities that might involve my penis. I continue to have some natural fluctuations in these abilities, but these moments are no longer devastating to me as they were in the past thanks to Freja’s work with me.
I am truly happy with my penis again. It is often hard enough to be completely off my body when lying on my back in bed, not all the time, but enough that it makes me happy.
My feelings of being manly again have emotionally up lifted my spirits, and I no longer incessantly dwell on them each day. She has taught me to be a sensual person, how to enjoy my body again and feel sensual and sexual energy. Further, she taught me that good sex is just not focused on intercourse but on connection and sexual diversity, and that there are so many ways to be sensual and sexual with a woman that provide and give equal if not better pleasures. Freja taught me how to enjoy sex again and be with a woman. She has taught me that there are various levels of being intimate and that each is as enjoyable as the next and so important in a relationship.
--Alex Hoffman, Toronto
When I first meet with Freja I was a 56 year old male experiencing issues with Erectile Dysfunction and related to that Performance Anxiety. I had begun my search for help with my family doctor and a men’s health clinic, which is the prudent way to begin with health related issues. However, the resulting recommendations and treatments had little or no benefit to me and were in one respect painful. It was at this point I realized that sexual performance and pleasure are not fully addressed by the traditional route, but it did at least have the benefit of telling me that there were no physical cause for my problems. I also realized at this point that the traditional route did not address how these issues affected me as a whole and as a man. As a result my anxiety and stress increased, further complicating not only my ED and Performance Anxiety, but me emotionally.
I took matters into my own hands and began an intense search for help on the internet. It was during this search I discovered Freja. I read the various postings and articles she wrote pertaining not only to Erectile Dysfunction and related problems, but also her work that involved developing sensual and sexual pleasure within the person. Sensual and sexual pleasure from within me was something I had not experienced for years as a result of my issues. The comments that she made in these articles that most appealed to me was her description of her services as promoting a healing of a person’s mind, body and both emotional and sensual spirit. I felt I needed that type of healing that the traditional route had not given me. I was fortunate enough to be local to Freja, and set up an appointment to see her. I now understand that you can work with Freja through online/phone/Skype sessions if you are not in her area.
Firstly Freja the person, and I preface my comments in this regard by saying that I interview and conduct investigative inquires for a living and am skeptical by nature. Freja is truly an amazing individual, this I felt from our very first meeting. The topics I came to seek her help with are both deeply personal and not easily discussed openly by me. She has an innate ability to make me feel comfortable and at ease very quickly as we began our discussion. She has a wonderful presence about her that quickly promotes a feeling of caring, understanding and a true concern about you as a person. She made it very easy for me to discuss my issues to the point I shared with her things that I had never spoken openly with anyone before. She is bright, enthusiastic about her work and instilled a confidence in me that she could help me. I must also add that she is gorgeous.
As she began her work with me over a number of sessions it quickly became evident how knowledgeable she is about: sensuality and sexuality, relationships and relationships issues, the male and the psychology of a man, the human body and the interaction between body and mind.
As we progressed through the various sessions Freja’ s expertise combined with the highest degree of professionalism not only made my journey healing but also very enjoyable. I will not go into the details of her work with me as the programs and healing she provides is customized to each individuals needs and wants.
I will share where I am today with my Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety. My improvements did not happen right away, but was a slow progression over time with a lot of work and self-analysis directed by Freja. There is no magic bullet that fixes these issues over night
**Freja's note: medication, Viagara and Cialias had NOT been effective even as a temporary solution in his case. Also, the client has not followed every recommendation in terms of health and lifestyle habits, choosing to engage in activities which have a deleterious effect on erections specifically.
I have the ability to have an erection and participate in intercourse to the complete satisfaction of my partner and myself. This was not possible before I met Freja, along with other activities that might involve my penis. I continue to have some natural fluctuations in these abilities, but these moments are no longer devastating to me as they were in the past thanks to Freja’s work with me.
I am truly happy with my penis again. It is often hard enough to be completely off my body when lying on my back in bed, not all the time, but enough that it makes me happy.
My feelings of being manly again have emotionally up lifted my spirits, and I no longer incessantly dwell on them each day. She has taught me to be a sensual person, how to enjoy my body again and feel sensual and sexual energy. Further, she taught me that good sex is just not focused on intercourse but on connection and sexual diversity, and that there are so many ways to be sensual and sexual with a woman that provide and give equal if not better pleasures. Freja taught me how to enjoy sex again and be with a woman. She has taught me that there are various levels of being intimate and that each is as enjoyable as the next and so important in a relationship.
--Alex Hoffman, Toronto
