Overcome Premature Ejaculation
You are not satisfied with your ability to last during intercourse, maybe you make it 2 minutes... maybe 30 seconds. At any rate, you're missing out on profound pleasure and intimacy by not being able to plateau and ride the waves of arousal and pleasure, and so is the lady you want to satisfy.
Chances are, you've even done some reading, heard about kegels or that really fun SQUEEZE TECHNIQUE. Maybe tried some creams that made you completely numb, thought of hockey, puke, the news... or the favourite of all women... the stop start!! Women need consistency fellas, if you're stopping every minute or so it's really hard to get there.
This is not age related, experience related, it's not because you're too sensitive, or because you get too turned on. It's not because you do have foreskin, or because you don't. Premature Ejaculation is either a learned skill, one which you happen to be excellent at, and or related to an imbalance in your sexual muscles, those in the pelvic floor, as well as a general lack of awareness of your arousal process.
Allow me to start from the ground up and teach you a systematic approach that will teach you to tune yourself INTO your body and staying there rather than tuning out and missing out on the experience or having it end within mere moments. A progressive series of techniques, exercises and the best part -- homework -- will ultimately give you the ability to not only last during intercourse and have control over when you come, but to fully experience pleasure in the experience.
What is included? How does it work?
For the solo male this is a very hands on process. I guide you through the process and techniques to control ejaculation, to show you exactly what to be doing and how you should be feeling.
You ALSO will receive an audio Hypnosis Program for you to listen to and re-enforce, develop and reprogram your sexual response to one of ejaculatory control. The bonus is that included in this is a second track which increases your capacity for pleasure and programs you to have multiple male orgasms. Yes, these are a thing!!
Following the session, you will download a detailed follow-up with the information shared, homework to do, and your hypnosis tracks. Like any physical trainer, I can show you what to do but unless you take what is learned home and put it into practice you will not make progress. Changing your conditioning takes commitment, and the desire to have a more satisfying love life, with confidence in yourself and your body.
The complete ejaculation management program is $200, and the initial session is 90 minutes long. It includes conversational education, hypnosis, and bodywork.
Optional follow-up body work sessions are $140/h or $75 for a 30 minute focus session: As you will have the hypnosis audio, you can listen to it for as long as you wish, and refresh yourself in years to come if you find you need it. You will find that your experience of bodywork changes, as your capacity for pleasure increases and you discover sensation that was never before available to you.
To book a session, please select a 90 minute "Health Session " from the booking page, and specify in the notes that you wish to work on Ejaculation Management.
Overcome the Inability to Ejaculate during Intercourse
You love sex with your partner, but are unable to come during intercourse, or if you do the whole process takes so long that your partner is often left sore, discouraged, fed up, and feeling unattractive or inadequate.
Often the inability to ejaculate -- leading to marathon sexual sessions eventually leads to the woman being unwilling to participate in these uncomfortable marathons. She turns away, avoiding not only sex, but all forms of touch and intimacy for fear of having to participate in a strenuous workout just to get you off. Where is the pleasure in it for her?
You tend to your own needs to spare her, and in the meantime both of you suffer from the lack of intimacy and sexual sharing. Your masturbation habits further exacerbate your problem and when you do eventually come together for sex the combination of anxiety, apprehension, and the conditioning you've done to your own body and brain make it virtually impossible to orgasm -- once again perpetuating the cycle.
Break the cycle and re-introduce pleasure and intimacy to your relationship. Sex should be an ecstatic exploration and expression of love and desire for each other, not an exercise in futility and frustration.
Your sexual response is plastic. What does this mean? It means you have the ability to condition your body and brain, to develop your arousal triggers, to make yourself less or more responsive to certain cues -- such as intercourse with your partner. Most of us go through life unconsciously reacting to our sexual drive and urges, without ever considering the impact of our activities.
What is included? How does it work?
A consultation will determine what the cause is, and what is needed as a remedy. After the consultation, we will do a followup -- in person or via distance, with a detailed assessment of the situation, my overview and the steps in the process to overcoming your inability to ejaculate and to cultivate a passionate fulfilling sex life. I will provide a hard copy of the assessment.
You will learn how to resensitize your body and be more responsive to intercourse. If there are emotional or mental issues in the way, these will be addressed and recommendations made: you simply cannot separate your sexuality from your emotional and mental state.