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Do you love being naked? 

20/6/2013

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Comment: Firstly, Hello
My topic centres around honesty and therefore encompasses a world of content, where to begin.
You are clearly passionate, encouraging openness and self awareness, the understanding of truth and belief in one's true Self.
And yet...
Okay, a question to get this ball rolling:
Are you happier, more comfortable, more responsive, hornier in an intimate situation clothed, whether totally or partially, or stark b...... naked? 


Me personally?! Well... This will require baring myself a bit, but I might as well. 

In an intimate situation, I am all of the above, happier, more comfortable, more responsive, hornier, when I am comfortable. Period. I need to feel safe. What does safe mean? There are many levels of safety, of course I may trust that the man in my bed is not going to smack me, insult me, rape me......   But other levels of safety include emotional safety and levels of acceptance. How well does he know me? Is he going to touch me the way I like to be touched, and most importantly, how do I feel about myself in his presence? I will give an example. Stark naked in the daylight can be difficult for me. I do it all the time, and I always make love with the lights or candles on ... sometimes fully naked sometimes not. The thing is, I do not have a perfect body. I'm not slender, I've had children and pregnancy left it's scars. I am not going to be turned on unless I know that my lover adores my body the way it is. If I feel that he is looking at me critically I will not enjoy being fully nude. If something is weighing on my mind, I will not become as aroused, if at all. So, there are times when being partially clothed or in sexy lingerie actually is conducive to me feeling happier, hornier and more aroused as it eases my own insecurities. There is nothing like full on body to body contact and eye gazing in intimate love making though. 

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